There are so many stereotypes about Palestinians which are false at best, and bigoted at worst. The funny thing is, most of the people that perpetuate these myths have never even met a Palestinian, let alone attend their family gatherings. Palestinians love life just like everyone else, and value family, culture, and education. They love to welcome people into their homes and celebrations with open arms.
In my latest Youtube upload, I take you inside a Palestinian wedding so you can experience this warmth for yourself. Palestinian weddings are rich in cultural heritage, marked by intricate customs, vibrant ceremonies, and deep-rooted symbolism. Palestinian Americans blend ancient traditions with contemporary American practices, creating a unique celebration that honors their heritage while embracing modern influences.
If you ever get invited to a Palestinian wedding, here is what you can expect:
- The Sahra: a pre-wedding party held at the groom’s family’s home a couple of nights before the wedding. At these parties you might witness the shaving of the groom, an ancient tradition that took place in Palestinian villages, as well as henna painting on the hands. These parties also feature traditional middle eastern foods like hummus, falafel and kebabs to more ornate dishes like Maqloubeh and Mansaf. Live Arabic music and dance is ubiquitous at these parties.
- Wedding Ceremony: The wedding day itself is a massive affair, featuring the “Zaffe” – a lively procession that includes music, drums, and traditional dance. The ceremony often takes place in a mosque or a church, where the couple exchanges vows in the presence of family and friends. Traditional Palestinian wedding attire can be a highlight, particularly in the parties leading up to the wedding. For the most part though most Palestinian American brides opt for contemporary western bridal wear.
- Music and Dance: Traditional music featuring a band and dance, such as the “Dabke,” are integral parts of the celebration, but they are often complemented by modern music genres. This blend helps create a lively atmosphere that resonates with both older and younger generations. Dabke, a line dance featuring a lot of stomping and tapping is open to all in attendance, whether experienced or a newbie.
Now that you know a little more about the customs, welcome to the wedding! Click on the video below and be a part of the celebration:
